Yeah, one of the big advantages I had in getting my indigo from Rob was that I lived only a half an hour away so I was able to keep in contact very easily before the purchase (him letting me know what I would have to go through to get the baby to eat) and afterwards (keep him updated and get questions answered on a regular basis). So I think I had a better idea what I was in for.
I've tried not to handle the hatchling too much (but you're right...it is a temptation). I've had her for almost a month and I've handled her four or five times in that time (never for over five minutes a piece). She has gotten bolder and more curious since she started feeding. She still has this crazy notion that I'm going to eat here...but she has taken a greter interest in what I'm doing (don't know if she connects me with food yet), peeking her head out of her hide, even when I'm doing something close to the cage.
Given my situation, I'm glad that I was able to go through this process with her. It's given me a tiny, bitesized taste of the work I would need to do to raise a bunch of youngsters when and if I ever decide to breed them down the line.
Out of curiostity, is there a special "breeders" permit (in IL) or would you just take on hatchlings to the owners permit you already have?