>>I got a pair of G. oxycephala silver phase three days ago, they are wild caught so will need worming shortly after they settle in.
Congratulations, these are great snakes.
>>Today I tried feeding them and both eagerly took a day old chick and a large defrost mouse. Must be doing something right.
Eating is an excellent sign with this species. I have purchased about 20 imports of this species in the past year. All the ones that ate right away survived for at least a year. The only exception is one female who died due to ovoposition difficulties. To be fair, the other specimens arrived in horrible condition and were either given to me for free or at a discount. It's not a surprise they died.
But these are still problematic snakes... I have also had imports die for no apparent reason after doing well for over a year.
All of my other mortality was due to a flood or ovoposition difficulties. Of course that's based on my memory only, all my records were lost in the flood as well 
>>The female is smaller 5' and has more of an orange colour, the male is silver and 7'.
Wow, are you sure that's a male? The biggest male I ever had was just over 5'. I had a male breed successfully at just about 4'. I believe he was about 300 grams when he bred, but again, I can't say for sure due to losing my records.
>>Will the female egventually turn silver like the male or stay the same.
Very difficult to say. I purchased an orange female who has changled color with every shed. For a time she was orange, then turned more grey/silver after a few sheds, and now seems to be turning orange/yellow again.
This is a picture of her after her first shed. The picture came out so bright I actually had to dim it down in photoshop to better duplicate her actual appearance. Of course I've since found out she's a different snake with every shed so I hardly even recognize this picture.
Please contact me off board. I maintain something of a Gonyosoma listserve in my e-mail inbox for the exchange of information regarding this species.

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1.1 Gonyosoma oxycephala - (Silver/Yellow)
3.4 Gonyosoma oxycephala - (Green)
2.1 Gonyosoma janseni - (Black)