Andy i'm not saying you do this, but I know many others do..
when they post 'a question', they actually start by making the thread titled READ THIS NOW!!!!
no one likes being told what to do
another BIGGER pain, is when they write what seems like a book, with no spaces no punctuation, run on sentencesand switching subjects and asking a dozen questions and talking about every single detail of every single thing they own, color size, location angle, positionand temperment and space, length, etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., .. see what I mean?
It goes ON AND ON AND ON AND ON AND ON and seems like it never ends!!!
I would suggest to actually ask ONE question, and see where it takes you!
again, this is not directed towards you. I am not in the best mood today, but am NOT taking this out on you at all.
I would ask something like
'What is the best time to introduce my pair and how should I go about it/what do I look for?'
Very simple, short and sweet!
I think many people will answer that because it is simple and one question. Even if they have little time, it takes a second to read and a minute to respond to at most.
They would then probably direct you to care sheets and web sites for more help!
When these people write a whole page like I mentioned above, just looking at it makes me dizzy! NOONE wants to read that!
I actually have MUCH more time than these big breeders do.. they don't even have the time to READ those huge endless posts!
I do, but choose not to, because of how nonsenical they seem, or atleast just be looking at them this is the impression I get.
I would suggest ASKING a question, not talking about everything you know and waiting for someone to spend time conversing back with you. This is not that kind of place, from my own experiences.
There are many other forums where that is all they do! Lots of people converse about issues back and forth, and it is great, and welcomed!
I would suggest going to the Boaphile site, and going to the 'ThinkTank' . Look under breeding, or any other section, and SEARCH first, before you may post the same questions that others spent time answering and maybe won't do again. You'll be amazed at the wealth of information available.
Then you can start your own threads asking for advise, or making suggestions.... but not demanding someone stops what they're doing to read your thread. Encourage friendly discussions and you will make lots of friends there too.
I also suggest going to RioBravoReptiles site for care sheets.
Then after you have read all this info, then ask what you still don't know.
People don't like spending their time to answer questions that are easily available anywhere else.. they did it, they looked it up and read it, why can't others? See what I mean?
Hope this helps.
Thanks much, Joe
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Thanks and take care - Joe Rollo
'Tis not the stongest of the species that will eventually survive, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change' Charles Darwin