>>Triad,
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>>If it were me I would definitely seperate them permanently. As for your mother it may or may not help to convert the Uro house parameters to human parameters. ie, the lizard is 6 inches long and the tank is 18 inches long, so 3 times longer. and then have her think about wriglling around on her belly living only in a space 3 times longer than she is. Though this approach would only work depending on the relationship you have with your mother, it could be construed as disrespectful if it is already a tense relationship. Also, you could have her come on and sort through the posts, we have repeatedly warned people away from 20 gallon tanks because they do not allow a temperature gradient that is sufficient for the Uro to thermo-regulate properly. Possibly you just need to explain the need for thermoregulation, how it works, the temperature gradient that is needed, etc. Logic will often work with parents.
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>>In reply to your other question, regarding a cheap place to buy cages, by far the CHEAPEST way is to build them, unless you go with the rubbermaid option of course. The cage building forum here on Kingsnake is invaluable help. The cheapest, decent looking pre-made cages I have found were on ebay under "custom reptile cages".
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>>Otherwise keep your eye out for garage sales and classified ads for aquariums. Be careful with the temporary plastic garbage can, not all of the thinner plastic cans will be able to withstand the heat from the lights without melting.
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>>I wish I had better solutions for you, I have been pulling my hair out trying to figure out housing for my pets too. They sure do appreciate the time and money we spend on proper housing for them though!
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>>Elizabeth
See here is the thing, my mom just doesn't like to listen to me anymore. I started reading the post you wrote to her and she just stopped listening to me. She wanted me to tell you all that I don't have a job and that she's been the one paying for crickets and worms. I've paid her back sometimes when I have the money for buying those things. I've worked 2 summers and have saved money from those jobs. I do piece work for her work (I put labels on folders, 10 cents each folder) year round and save that money and use it for their food, lights and supplies.
There is just NO reasoning with my mom. She even told me today to sell some of my lizards, if not some then ALL of them so I would have money. She doesn't understand that I love them all so much that her asking me to sell them would be like someone telling her to sell her first born child for money. It's NOT going to happen I will never sell my pets ever.
Can someone please help me try to get through to her the importance of a tank for the appropriate size he is?
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