Well she's not gonna pop yet...
Using that website Lele posted, I found a good rep vet in Ft Wayne (IN) that was not hard to get to at all. Talked with him on the phone today and described all that was going on, and my mom bless her soul took her to see him this afternoon.
As for whats going on...
Apparently she is just literally full of eggs! The probs are though that the eggs dont seem to be calcifying correctly(which confuses me)and seem to be in a large lump. And she was fairly dehydrated. So he gave her a shot of electrolytes and gave mom some pedialite for her, plus a liquid calcium supplement that we are giving to her once a day. And she has been hissing alot at us telling us she is QUITE unhappy about the whole process (Mom said she felt the same way too hehe) but that makes it a bit easier to get liquids in her.
The schedule is that hopefully this should give her what she needs to do this on her own, but should she start turning for the worse or hasn't laid by friday, then she goes into surgery saturday morning (or sooner) to get them out. The vet says he has had much experience with surgey on iguanas and doesnt feel that this should be a problem. Shes a tough little girl too, so I believe she could go through surgery fine.
Im confused on the calcium issue though, we've been dusting her crickets with the usual stuff, and her crickets are gutlaoded as well. I think I need to get a new dust though, I think the stuff I have is a bit old and obviously not really effective. I cant remember the name but I got it a our local petstore.. Herp-vit comes to mind.. (white bottle with a drawn veiled cham on the front)
But just wanted to update on her to those that were helping me and say thanks again for the help and concerns! We appreciate it!
Thanks again!
Erin (& Aurora)
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1:1 Veileds (Gene and Aurora)
1:1 Albino Clawed Frogs (Phedre and Jos)
?? Fire belly toad (Harold)
Various cats and dogs 


)Because she was sedated she couldnt' hide her not being well, and she looked like a corpse... that was the worse part. The best part is that the next day she started walking around (she actually burnt her tail in the incubator, the dr could'nt keep her still lol) and she is 100% now. She is a tough cookie, just not meant to have babies I guess. Get her in as good of condition as you can by Sat, so that if she does go under the knife she is as ready as she can be. I know what you mean about the hissing and water... LOL.