And I can honestly say that no matter what you write on the box it does not make much of a difference as far as them treating the package better. I agree with writing "fragile" on the box only draws attention to the matter and it seems people go out of their way to knock it around.
Perfect example, less then two weeks ago we shipped a reptile with "FRAGILE" written on everyside of the box. On the top was written "Room Temps Please" and everyside had the arrows pointing up with the red letters PERISHABLE on each side.
When the package arrived the guy was flipping and tossing the box upside down and every which way. The home owner watched him do it and told him to stop. The driver continued to do it infront of the person and needless to say the homeowner has filed a complaint against the driver (another topic).
It's a sad fact but nobody cares about your stuff unless it's you. Whenever you ship through FedEx, UPS, or DHL it's a crap shoot on how it's handled. The more attention you draw to it the more likely there will be noisy people around the package. I am in the agreement that low key shipping is the way to go.
Obviously shipping through the airlines is a much better option but unfortunately unrealistic for a lot of small time hobbyist with "cheaper" reptiles.
brandon
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