As far as I know, all spiders so far have been het for the spider gene. Heterozygous just means an unmatched pair of genes, in this case one normal copy at the spider gene location and one with the spider mutation. The big question is if there are now some homozygous spiders with two copies of the spider gene or not.
Because some of the first morphs where recessive and with recessive the heterozygous animals are supposed to look normal some people have got in the habit of thinking that "het" means something like "normal looking gene carrier". However, now that we have some dominant type morphs it is helpful to remember the real meaning - having an unmatched pair of genes. The mutation type (recessive, co-dominant/incomplete dominant, completely dominant) tells you what the hets look like relative to normals and homozygous mutants.
Once you get your head around the wider definition of het and understand which co-dominants are hets you can use the same rules to predict the offspring odds with any het breedings, regardless of the mutation type. For example, breeding two pastels together is just like breeding two het albinos together. Both are het X het breedings and each egg has a 25% chance of being completely normal, a 50% chance of being a het, and a 50% chance of being homozygous mutant. Then you just need to remember that het pastels are pastel looking and homozygous ones are super pastel looking.