>>remember that to a BD any large thing coming in from above and or behind him is a possible threat.
That's what my mom tells me when I kiss my bearded's back. But Hades absolutely loves it. When he was a baby I used to hold him while he slept, and I would kiss my finger and then touch it to his back. My mom would always say "maybe he thinks your trying to eat him and thats why he goes to sleep" but I disagree.
My brothers Bearded is aggressive sometimes.
But I've been hand feeding Draco and rubbing her back with my finger and holding her back foot and she likes it. Soon I will be able to pick her up
and that'll be the day that makes me feel happiest! The day that I finally calmed down a nervous dragon!
Just keep up what you are doing. Do not back down. With my saharan uromastyx when I first got him, Orion would always tail whip me, so I let him. Now he knows that when I'm putting my hand in the tank it's ok and he just lets me pick him up.
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2 mali uro's-Ares and Apollo
2 saharan uro's-Orion and Iris
2 bearded dragon-Hades and Draco
1 leo gecko-Kalypso
1 tokaye gecko-Sid Vicious
1 tarantula-Peter Parker
1 dog-cheeka
1 zebra finch-beeps
1 african gray parrot-keya
1 red headed parrot-pancho
And some fish