Hello.
Thanks both of you for the replys. I currently feed my adults seperate. Mostly because Big Momma is such an argressive feeder that Bob doesn't get much.
As for babies... I have seen two of them (acctually I've seen THREE once) grab the same earthworm and I can see where one would easely swallow the other.
I'm expecting Big Momma to have babies. But I don't know how many. The first year she had them I didn't know I had a male and female. I didn't hibernate and I ended up with three still births and a bunch of unfertilized eggs (Which i've seen referenced here as "slugs"
Last year she had them a week later then the first year (first year July 4th second about the 18th) and 10 of them were still born, about 3 slugs and 6 live. I'm hopeing she does better each year. The vet told me (did necropsy) that the still births looked fine except they had seperated from the ah.. I know it's not a placenta in reptiles... um the nutrital sac? probally a week before birth..... It makes me think Big Momma may hold the babies too long. (exp sence other people with the same kind of snake have had theirs give birth already) I have tryed to make her cage ah nicer and took out Bob so she is by herself. Of course I am not sure she IS pregnate... she doesn't show well when carring and I never see them mating... I just have to assume and pray. 
Anyway... when/if she has them I will seperate them I have small cages... and if she has more then 10 I will at least feed seperate.
I am buying two babies of the same speices from somoene and I want to take two of Big Momma's babies this year and put them with the two I am buying and raise them together. This is why I want to try to tell them appart... the females will grow larger but I want to be able to tell Big Momma's offspring from the others. (I won't know what sex her's are until later I can't sex them and my vet won't until they are adults... The ones I'm buying though will be sexed... yes I know I'm takeing a risk and may end up with 3 males and 1 female... but the other way around would be nice.
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I am fairly good at telling when they are about to shed... and it is a few days between their eyes going milky and them accutally sheding so I hope I'd be able to seperate at that time. Also... I don't *know* what markers would be non-toxic... do you guys have brand names?
Thanks agian
- Sharon