I thought everyone agreed that the extra calcium that females get from pinkies is good for them during egg production........... I fed themn to my dragons before and after egg laying......... especially after to fatten her back up quick and replace the calcium she had lost during egg production..... Unless a female is very young we all know they will produce more than one clutch. Why would you not want to feed pinkies? I know they are very fatty but that is what you want to give her during a time as critical as between clutches. As long as your not giving them to her all the time it should be fine.
I do agree though that you shouldn't stress her out by force feeding especially if she is close to laying.
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A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds,
adored by little statesmen, philosophers and divines.
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