Oh, it's kinda lenghthy, bear with me.
I've been online last night and since 6:30 this am reading everything on RES, and trying to figure out what has happened to my turtle. My husband bought him last spring for our 4 yr old son. So, I researched mostly here on kingsnake but did not know what I had so my posts have been at mud and musk turtle forums ( then I found an article on RES, and a light bulb went off) I have always had pets, a daschund 12 1/2 yrs old/ Prissy RIP Nv. 4th 2004, a Jack Russell , 2 cats, so my husband figures I can handle a turtle too. And I love/ loved him. This brings me to my dilemna, I'm pretty sure he's dead, but how do I know for sure? Firstly, I'm 2 hours from any remotely qualified herp vet and I'm at home alone with two small children. Last night I looked at his tank, it is right across from our pc, and he was weird like floating at the bottom of the tank, his limbs were expended, and he was unresponsive when I touched him. I placed him on his basking rock, emailed everyone on the other site I had ever exchanged an e-mail with and having no luck, I went to bed, this morning, he looked a bit different, his eyes were swollen but he had not moved, nor has he still in more than 12 hours. His eyes are not as swollen, they actually lok sunken now but definately not normal. I'm not too lazy or cheap to take him to a vet but we are pretty remote and I think it's too late. BUT, I would hate to have a turtle funeral ( me and the children are very attached to "Buster"
and he be buried alive. I'm not sure what I'm asking fo any of you. I guess how do I know he is or isn't dead? I read so many posts and iturnrocks has the adorable graphic of the RES swimming and it makes me sick to think my we've lost another pet in the span of a month.
your replies greatly appreciated..ps, no, he has shown, NO other signs of impanding illness, etc. He didn't eat all day yesterday but he sometimes skips a day, that has never given me any cause for concern, he has no abnormal markings, colors, spots, etc
What I THINK might have happened, this morning when my 4 yr old and I were worrying that Buster was dead, my 2 1/2 yr old daughter, asks could she hold him AGAIN, well, I've never let her hold him ..EVER, so i'm thinking she must have gotten him out, hurt him in some way, with this image, my mind goes wild, and put him back in, when further questioned about what she did to or with Buster, we get nothing. His tank is not easily accessible to her but this is a child that climbed a 5 tier bookshelf to the top shelf to get a "no no doll" at age 18 months and like a racoon with it's paw stuck in a trap, would not let go of the doll to climb down and thus, let go and fell, coming up clutching the doll to her chest saying "I dot it" ..so maybe this is really a memorial to a dear pet and loved little guy that I'm really gonna miss and I just needed to vent. But idf any of you have ever a circumstance that your turtle didn't move or respond in ths amountof time, let me know, I know, I'm grasping at straws but I figure you all would/ will understand my plight.
Sincerely,
Wendy

