What kind of snake do you have?
What rick said is a good idea, unless you have a snake like my blue beauty. I ended up just having to reach in and grab her - wouldn't stay still long enough for me to hold my hand by her, lol. She bit me for a full month with daily handling. But she's a lot better now. (had her a little over 2 months.) Anyway, don't put her back in her tank just because she bites you, and do not put her back in because she musks you. If you do this, you will be teaching that snake "hey if i bite her she'll let me go home!" You want to keep holding onto her, if she gets tryin to run out of your hands then hold her tighter, when she relaxes you relax. Start out with 5 minutes at a time, then after a month or two you can increase the handling.
Your snake will not just get "nice" as it grows up. It gets tolerant of you because it gets use to you being around, your scent, etc. You grab a 4 foot everglades or yellow rat in the wild, you probably will get bitten - it doesnt know who/what you are... and if you treat your baby like that it will grow into an agressive adult.
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-Chris
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0.1 Licorice Stick Black Rat (Lola)
1.0 Black Rat (Frankie)
1.1 Texas Bairds (Jose and Rosa)
0.1 Blue Beauty (Brunhilde)
1.0 Green Tree Python (Claudius)... coming soon