i have a male and female that seem to be stressed very often. the male is in a 55 gallon tank and the female is in a 75 gallon tank.he is about 12 inches and 90 grams and shes just over 11 inches and 84 grams. the temps are right (105-110 basking) and (80-85 cool). it seems that they might be craving attention as they seem to lose their stress markings when handled. what should i do ?