I was reading a bit in the posting comments below and I wanted to drop you a line. You seem to take some punishment and I hope I can give some perspective. I wanted to start a new line in the hopes you would pick it up and read it. The last string was getting a bit long - forgive me if I sound fatherly.
I don't know how you might be taking the feedback you are receiving from the folks posting here on Kingsnake, but I don't think anyone here is judging your love for your python, nor your intentions to raise a strong, healthy snake. I can see from your point of view that you are sharing your experiences with your burm and wanting us to hear that things are going well inspite of your young age. I think that is great to share your personal experiences with us. I hope that having these experiences with your snake are memorable and will give you joy for years to come. I don't think anyone here is telling you that those experiences are not real nor important.
I can also see from Rob's perspective, working on the front lines with reptiles daily and seeing the incredible good that comes from owning them and the horrible mistakes that poor husbandry can create. I can imagine that in his line of work, he sees many young people not following the best practices and harming either themselves or their reptiles. Rob Carmichael is also passionate about this species and he has so much experience and knowledge to share. When he speaks, I look at it like I am listening to golf advice from Tiger Woods or basketball techniques from Michael Jordan. Of course there are many husbandry techniques you can use to get results for your python. Rob is interested in giving you the best methods he has found through YEARS of research, professional and personal experience. He may come across as rough, and, I see that roughness as his true passion for these animals coming out. I can imagine he has seen many tragedies resulting from not following the best care strategies and only wants to shout out a warning to you about how to avoid them.
I don't know everything about raising pythons, nor anything else in life, but this I do know. When an expert in any field (medical, legal, business, psychology, etc) offers me advice, especially for FREE, I will give it more than just a superficial look. I will ignore any rough edges I hear and look to the root of the message and USE it. After all, he is not just talking about a hobby of his, this work is his job and his passion.
I wish you the best of luck with your burm and I hope I haven't been too preachy. My clients tend to tell me I am.
Sincerely,
Marco



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