Scroll down in the forum, or do a search, as this topic has been addressed to death... I could type for hours about this topic, but it would save me and many others a lot of time, if you just scroll down and search the previous posts in this forum..
my basic opinion: forcing an animal to be held, which you are doing in the photograph is not the way to achieve a healthy, trustworthy monitor... A tame monitor takes a lot of time and patience of not handling him, and having him become accustomed to your presence...
By shoving your hand into his home everyday and prying him out of his hiding spot, you are never achieving anything, other than stressing the poor thing out... Think about it if you were in his situation, what would it take for you to trust such a giant animal to hold you??? Monitors are not hampsters, or cats, or dogs, and do not appreciate being handled, held, carried around, shown off to friends, taken into public, etc... they are wild animals that like to be left alone...
So there is my stance/opinion on the matter... If you do a search, or scroll through the last few pages of the forum, you will read more on what others and myself think about 'taming' a monitor... But surely what you're doing is not the way to do it...
Cheers,
Bob
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