>>> *i need to know the best way to handle my golden gecko when removing it
>>> from its cage...
If you are taking the gecko out just so you can maintain its cage, a good way is to put a kitchen towel over it so it can't see, then it will be less freaked out when you pick it up and you can transfer it to another container while you clean the cage or whatever. Alternatively, if there is a cork tube or similar in the cage, you can wait 'til it's inside there and then remove the whole tube.
If you are asking how you can play with your gecko so it doesn't get freaked out, I would say it's better to leave it alone. Goldens aren't really known for taking handling well, although I am sure there are exceptions out there.
i think it might be more fun for the geckos to
>>> hang out with each other instead of just having my one alone all the
>>> time...
As for geckos having little playmates to have "fun" with, I would venture to say that the only "fun" they are liable to have would be if one was a male and the other a female, if you catch my meaning. Even then, the female oftentimes gets beat up in the process.
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Chris
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