Yep, with the help of my sister in law, Ayida finally ate a pinkie. I very gently eased her jaws open with a blunt pair of tweezers, just enough to get them open, and my sister in law poked the head down her throat. I then just held it here as she gulped it down, very quickly I might add. After less than five minutes, the thing was already moving it's way down her belly.
*big, HUGE sigh of relief*
Many thanks to all who posted. She's back in her small enclosure and is not going to even be looked at for at least three days until I feed her again. 
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Know first, who you are, then adorn yourself accordingly....Epictetus

