As I posted below the painted black lights are not dangerous at all. It's only the fluorescent types that are designed to fluoresce certain pigments or tissues that can be dangerous due to the UVR spectra they produce.
Since you are worried about heat I suggest you consider the painted compact fluorescents. I have seen them in both red and black. I believe they are under 20 watts.
When you test them to see if they get too hot you'll want to grab the base where the ballast is housed. That's where it gets warm.
Another option is to make your own painted bulbs. There are readily available spray paints that dry to a non-toxic finish and will stick to either regular incandescent bulbs or the compact fluorescents. You'll have to research and see which types work - I can no longer remember.
In case you're wondering my background on this subject, I used to manage a lab that studied acoustic communication in insects. We had all sorts of light filters, etc. to allow us to mimic nocturnal conditions.
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Current snakes:
0.2 Gonyosoma oxycephala - (Silver/Yellow)
3.3 Gonyosoma oxycephala - (Green)
2.1 Gonyosoma janseni - (Black)
3.3 Gonyosoma janseni - (Black & Tan)