Kap is right, don't force handle it if you are indeed trying to "tame" it, let it get accustomed to you. Someone on this board gave a good description on why thats better for you and the monitor.
"let's take a squirrel for example. If you(for some strange reason) wanted to be able to pet and interract with a wild squirrel in your backyard or a park, you do not go out and grab it, and restrain it in your hands as it writhes and bites, in an attempt to get away.....
What you would do, is slowly day by day, week by week, you would begin leaving food out, getting closer and closer to you as time goes by. Eventually, the squirrel will become more comfortable with you, and move closer and closer. Eventually, with enough time and pateince, it may even come to eat out of your lap, and allow touch" ~ treemonitors. com
All forced handling does to a monitor is freak it out and make it fear you and it will never come out of it's hide cause it's in constant fear that it's going to be grabbed at any min. Trust me, I know from experiance with my Sav who used to really active, but now stays in his hide all the time cause I USED to force handle him.