yes, I do consider snakes as pets and turtles and lizards and . . . names are optional (i have a garter snake named baby at the moment but two snakes without names) . . . in a way I look at it as the snakes aren't so much kept captive by me as they have me captivated with them . . . they are each unique and have their own personalities. It seems no matter how hard I try to tell other people (mainly non-herpers) that reptiles have personalities that they just don't believe me.
I think it all comes down to what we consider domesticated. Look at a cat or dog, if you didn't feed and water them every day or "pet" them in some manner, would they have anything to do with you? I see farm cats all the time. They look just like my house cats but they've lacked human contact since they were born and therefore are not tame. They hunt for their food in the wild . . . but most people would consider a cat a pet.
My snakes know that I feed them. They don't respond to my husbands handling of them the same way they respond to me. He doesn't feed them or clean their cages or sit on the couch and let them curl into his shirt collar. I do. They are my pets.
So do I think that they should be kept in apartments? Why not? As long as the owner is responsible care giver and treats the animal like a pet and not some object that they own for novel effect. As long as the animal is kept in a secure manner . . . a snake kept in a 40 gal tank is the same in a house or an apartment or on a farm as long as it's in the tank. My only reservation is that not all people who think they should own a reptile really should.
Not trying to offend, just answering a question . . .
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