*Warning, long rant ahead. I feel strongly about this issue and feel that Christians are not clear enough on what they believe and what they should be doing.*
I agree with Kingsnake2. I'm also a Christian and don't approve of the lifestyle, but I have friends who are homosexual. Christians shouldn't alienate gays and lesbians like this. Certainly, the message of the Gospel is that Christ loved us and died for us while we were still sinners - likewise, we should be reaching out in love to others, even when they are living in sin. This doesn't mean we have to agree with their lifestyle, though. We can be clear and uncompromising in our position, while still reaching out in love.
Honestly, it's no different than saying I don't approve of alcoholism, don't approve of premarital sex, don't approve of dishonesty. Many Christians seem to be missing the point that America has other pressing issues besides homosexuality. Why some Christians elevate homosexuality to be a "worse sin" than any other issue in someone's life is completely beyond me.
My unforgiving nature, my lack of generosity, and my self-serving attitude are all sin - and no worse and no better in God's eyes than any other sin, INCLUDING homosexuality. According to the Bible, homosexuals don't end up in hell because they are homosexuals - all people have a sinful nature, and must be saved by Christ. Homosexuality, or any other sin issue, is a moot point until that person becomes a Christian. When they do come to Christ, God is faithful to work out any sin in that person's life, using whatever means necessary. Until then, homosexuality is only the evidence of the unsaved condition, and the condemning sin is not accepting God's gift of Christ. Not to say that Christians are perfect or beyond sin, either - just that Christians can't expect non-Christians to be held to the same standards until Christ's redeeming power is present.
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