Yes sir, I do appreciate your comments. this is about kingsnakes. And yes, I have found kingsnakes to be exactly the same. Both in nature and in captivity. The problem is, when I was studying kingsnakes in nature, I did not carry this dang digital camera. Also, they are much harder to photograph in pairs as they normally live underneath something. So to lift a board or rock and pick up a pair and photograph, is not much in the way of proof. On the monitor forum, I actually found pairs under cap rocks, lifted the cap and took pics, they did not believe it. Of course those folks believe monitors never get within ten meters of eachother, they must have very long genital organs.
The best way to understand how they pair is very anthropromorphic(sp really bad) They do something like what humans do, a certain percentage of the population pairs up and are very regular, like the pics I showed. Other parts of the population do not breed, what so ever, they spend their lifes looking for a mate. Of course others find temporary mates and produce here and there. Its important to understand, reptiles are success driven, that is, if they find a good food source, they return to it. If they find ten food sources that provide food at different times, they will return to them when they are ready(ripe) With mates, I imagine, its sorta the same. Its most common they stay in pairs, but without question, there are trios as well. But what its not is, a male wandering around knocking up females. The reason I say this is, when males find a producing female, they spend months around her. Which eliminates the ability to fertilize lots of females.
On the monitor forum I tried to use birds as an analogy. Blackbirds, sparrows, etc, live in flocks, yet nest in pairs. And yes, they normally bond to a female(as long as it works) There are other birds, that nest in pairs and do not live in colonies. This is the same with snakes. They have a wide varity of pairing and nesting and breeding. Depending on species.
With kingsnakes, ratsnakes, montane rattlesnakes, lyresnakes, groundsnakes, tantilla, they indeed live in colonies and breed in pairs, yet, others like gophersnakes, glossys, longnose and others have not been found in colonies, may be different.
Why we have a need to make it all or nothing, has nothing to do with reptiles or any dang animal.
Now try to understand this, when a individual snake finds a mate and successful reproduces, its behavior is to repeat that, so they return to, or stay with that mate. Even more important is successful nesting sites. As I have said, nesting in nature is NOT about hatching eggs, but ABOUT, allowing neonates to survive. Let me use a gross comparison, If a fly does not place its eggs on a corpse, the maggots will indeed hatch and die, they must be laid in conditions that allow hatching and conditons for the neonates to survive, in the flys case, a corpse. With reptiles, if the neonates do not survive, all the hatching in the world is of no benefit. So the area around the nest, MUST provide the basics of life for neonates. Which you must understand, is not the same requirements as for adults. The question of importance is, which is the most important in that population?
These dens/hubs/population centers/colonies/family groups. are very simple to explain, they have found areas that support success and they center their population around these areas. But is does not prevent individuals from exploring for new areas, in fact, this is mandatory. The question is, how much or how little to these explorers contribute to the population.
I am sure as a collector, you go to hot spots to hunt kingsnakes, you know some areas are better then other areas. And you know that even in the exact same habitat, that some areas are really good and others not so good. So indeed, if you have experienced this, you are locating hubs(areas of dense populations) and do not realize it. If you investigate further, you may be able to find the exact center, which has a very dense population. With kingsnakes, thats year a round. In these areas you will find evidence, like eggs, hatched or not, pairs, sheds by the ton, etc. You will find adults and babies. Until you find this, your naive to this happening in nature.
Also, until you tested this in captivity, your naive to this as well. Try raising them in groups or pairs and then see if you experience rape. Its very simple, if you do not try it, you will not know.
Now a question for you, you mentioned that you think kingsnake breeding is based on males raping females. Let me assume you have actually bred a number if snakes. I have to ask, if rape is the method, then why do males have an elaborate mating ritual?????? this is a really good question. Cheers FR