Twisting what?
I take it your definition of a pet-is only that which you can touch. WRONG.
Plum (my cichlid) plays tag games with me and my wife and demonstrates jealousy when we don't pay attention by bouncing his tank lid. There is a definite level of intelligence there that most people fail to notice because they don't take the time to observe. I don't have to handle him to enjoy the relationship.
While there is not a lot of interaction with a Sidewinder, it still qualifies because it can respond in its own way to you. For example
ete has the sense to know me vs a stranger which he will buzz at. When I enter his cage to clean or move him (with a hook) he is calm.
Of course there are contact limitations based on what the animal is, but then as keepers we have to be aware of those limitations and special needs to properly maintain them.
If I were saying that you pick up and free-handle Pete like you would a boa, then I would say you have a point Chris.
However, I have never said that in any post on any forum. Your reaction is definitly over-stated. There is a difference between having a pet, knowing what the limitations are and ignoring those limitations.
I think the people out there are not going to start cuddling cobras because they happen to think of them as a pet. If they do, then nothing that is said here will matter anyway.
Frank
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"The luxury of not getting involved departed with the last lifeboat Skipper..."