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the importance of teaching the next generation to respect animals . . .

nathan23 Oct 02, 2005 04:13 PM

I have a couple little cousins ages 6 and 5. They are being tought by their mom that animals are gross and disgusting! Well not if I can help it! I have them come over about once a month or two and stay the night. they get taught all about animals. At first they would run away form them and even cry when I got the animals out of the cage. It is sad that they can have that much of a fear about animals all because it was taught to them by their mother. Well over time they are getting more and more used to them. And now when they come over they ask to hold all the different animals form lizards to rats and snakes. Its great to know that I have an impact on them and can change their minds. i even have convinced their mom to allow them to keep fish! Which is a huge step! im working my way towadrs a small lizard around christmas, lol. My point in all this is that its a huge responsibilty of pet owners to properly teach young kids the importance of animals and our environment.

this is my cousin dylon, This is the first time he touched a reptile and I had to bribe him with a peice of big red! lol

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sunbirdx Oct 02, 2005 06:12 PM

Hey that is great to hear! I think having pets in a family is so great! My mother is a preschool teacher, and she feels that pets are important for kids. Her room has 2 betta, 1 guinea pig, 3 tarantulas, 2 scorpions (these are just for looking of course), she used to have a gopher snake (Healthcode violation, just to have it in the room!), rats, mice and hamsters. She gets kids that come in all of the time terrified of the animals, but after two weeks, she says they all argue over who gets to feed the pets!
Just a suggestion, maybe you should talk to their mom about making a small rodent your cousins first pet, something more ordinary like a hamster or a rat. The only reason I say this is because their requirements are a lot less stringent, and while you may know what you are doing, a mom that doesnt care for pets may become easily turned off by just the fact that lizards need crickets/mealworms. If she thinks all animals a gross, that probably won't help her. In fact, a rat may be too much (I personally think they are the best rodents for kids) since they have a bad rap....Just my two cents!

beastie Oct 04, 2005 11:07 AM

i'd like to see the healthcode where a colubrid is a worse health issue than a roomful of small rodents!!!! people can be so backward...

"she used to have a gopher snake (Healthcode violation, just to have it in the room!), rats, mice and hamsters"

bc

lele Oct 02, 2005 06:25 PM

Nathan,

Not sure if you saw the thread below about educating people (in this case, teachers) but I linked below just in case.

As for the part you are playing - hurray!! I think there are too many people like your cousins' mom (your Aunt?), but it always goes back to lack of information. We (people) in general, fear what we do not understand and it manifests in prejudice, lack of tolerance for people who are different, toruturing, abusing or simply neglecting animals - and many other ways. But the biggest is likely fear/disgust - like your cousins' mom.

I am a bit of a bug nut and help the neighborhood kids with their insect collection when they hit 6th grade (I am sort of the "go to" bug lady ) and I find that pointing out the "interesting" stuff gets them involved. So whatever it takes, I commend you for caring and doing what you can. These kids are our animals future.

lele
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nathan23 Oct 02, 2005 07:00 PM

Yeah its my aunt that has the fear/disgusted and negative approach to animals. im trying to change her mind.

As far as a rodent well lets just say that would be the end of life as I know it. Rodents are far worse in her eyes. I remember growing up and one day a mouse ran through the kitchen when she was hear. She litterly jumped on a chair and was screaming for like 15 minutes. I had to catch the thing, they told me to kill it but I let it go in the backyard, lol. I was a sneaky little ten year old.

this whole thing about fear for the lack of understanding reminds me of a story.

Ine day a few years ago I when I was working in a pet store, a woman came in looking for a pet for her 5 year old son. She didnt want something to hard or too expensive. So I showed her a few reptiles, but she decided she didnt want to feed crickets and I sure as heck wasnt going to suggest an iguana. So I took her over to the hissing cockroach tank. this woman jumpoed, screamed and ran for the door. I caught her before she got out. I kept her up front and talked to her about them for a good half hour or so. She eventually came back and looked at them, in the tank with the lid locked, lol. But The more I educated her the more curious she got. I eventually took them out and held them, which made her confidence grow. So she wanted to hold one. When all was said and done she left with a habitat food and 3 hissers for her son! Its amazing what a little help can do to overcome what seems to be the biggest fears.

peace,
nate


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beardiedragon Oct 02, 2005 08:21 PM

I go to classroms to bring the wonderful world of reptiles to lots of kids.

I went to one class and we were talking about the bottom of the food chain, ROACHES!! When I told them I had a roach for them to see, all the girls began shreiking and screaming. I opened the container and realized the roach I brought was giving birth. When I announced that she was having babies, all the girls stopped panicing immediately and all could not wait to see the birthing process.

They stood around in amazement watching without a thought to the fact it was a roach. When it was over, I told them that this was a demonstration of the food chain and fed the roach to a tegu. Some thought it cool while some actually felt sorry for the poor roach. I actually felt sorry for my son that was helping me as when the Tegu grabbed the roach, it squirted roach guts all over the front of his shirt!

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nathan23 Oct 02, 2005 10:21 PM

Thats kinda funny and kinda sad about that roach getting fed to the tegu. But hopefully the kids learned a valuable lesson.

A couple months ago i ahd about 30 baby hissers get loose in my bedroom! When im cleaning my room I am still finding them lol, dead and alive.

peace,
nate

Willhayward Oct 03, 2005 09:50 AM

Do they hiss at night? I have accumulated probably a few hundred escaped crickets in my house from buying 1000 at a time and having a couple hundred escape well switching their boxes. Last week, my mom found an adult 3 stories above the basement I rent out.

This one cricket climbed 3 stores, Concrete floor, to Carpet, to ceramic tiles, to carpet to linoleum. Thats quite the hike for a 1" bug.

Anyways, good going on the boys. How about you take them to the pet store and let them "Buy their own animal" that they can keep at your home. Let them name it, hold it, care for it when they come over. That way its "their animal" and they wont feel weirded for touching them.

I agree, attack the problem from the source. Educate the mother more than the kids.
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bps516 Oct 03, 2005 10:09 AM

Glad to know we are not the only ones with an accidental cricket breeding program! I think the cats are the only ones enjoying it!
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bps516 Oct 03, 2005 09:42 AM

Great work!

Just be careful who you get the information from that you give out... Some people think they know more than they do or their information is completely wrong (like that lele... she thought a uromastyx was a chameleon in another posting below... geez... LOL! :P )
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Nicoleo Oct 03, 2005 04:31 PM

You need to come educate my mother when I'm home visiting next year lol. She still doesn't know that I have reptiles and she'd freak if she knew since her idea of a pet is a dog and nothing more. My uncle and I are the only two people in my family that actually appreciate reptiles which is sad because if it wasn't for him I probably wouldn't like reptiles at all so even if you can't talk their mother into letting them have any other pets than fish it won't be a total loss since when they get older they'll probably end up with all kinds of animals.

nathan23 Oct 03, 2005 07:41 PM

Talking to their mom is like trying to eat a brick, impossible! But I have been educating her as well. When she comes over instead of saying gross, and eww youre such a freak, i cant believe you, etc etc etc lol she askes if I have anything new And wants to see them , With the lids on of course! lol!

Anyways, As far as the roaches go I have the adults in my bedroom anyways so If the loose ones hiss I cant tell the diffeerence. And as far as my cats go well they are useless! Ive had them for 14 years and they have been raised around reptiles. I took a pic the other night of one of my beardies who crawled over and napped on one of my cats( for those of you who think this is stupid and risky. the cat was on my right the dargon on my left, I was monitoring it the whole time, just in case , after all they both are still wild animals with killer instincts!)

anyways Im to hyper to write right now, just had a big glass of mt dew on an empty stomach!
peace,
nate

bps516 Oct 03, 2005 08:55 PM

np
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