"since i'm guessing (perhaps generalizing incorrectly but going on what little i've read and from your previous post) that at least a good part of this behavior ties in with females' reproductive cycles, do you think that it's a completely natural and necessary thing that they stimulate each other? maybe it biologially encourages them to be more fertile or something?"
that's how it works in parthenogenetic Cnemidophorus lizards. and it's how i think it's manifested in torts as well. so far the idea is that in some organisms, environmental conditions (light, heat) and courtship stimulates the ovarian cycle. this is well documented in chickens, for example. hens need to hear (and see?) roosters crowing, that stimulates ovulation and egg laying. this is not the case for induced ovulators (cats and most carnivores, snakes, etc.), they ovulate following copulation. tortoises will lay infertile eggs in the absence of sperm, so they are similar to chickens in that sense.
one year i separated my adult RTs by sex. the adult females were separated from the males from fall until late summer of the next year. during the spring, two of the females pseudocopulated with each other on a number of occasions, but the other two adults did not. that spring, like clockwork (all females double clutch each year in the spring) the two females that pseudocopulated, layed two clutches of eggs each. the two females who didn't engage in "homosexual" mounting behavior didn't lay a single egg.
"and as for "true homosexuality" (which i'm thinking -- correct me if i'm wrong! -- would be consistent preference to the same sex, and not just play, dominace territoriality, or possible necessary reproductive stimulation), do you tihnk that reptiles can feel that? or maybe their concept of sexual preferenc,e if they have a such thing, is so different from our own that we coldn't begin to yet understand it."
i agree that there needs to be a very narrow definition for the term "homosexuality" and based on such a stringent definition, i doubt that it exists in reptiles. animal models for true homosexuality would have to be found in social mammals with at least some amount of pair bonding.
matt