Ok before I start, may be a lil long....
I am doing all the right things (light heat feeding etc) I have read Igs for Dummies, and researched every website concerning igs and still have a few more questions.
Got him 3 or so weeks ago (hes about 18-20" head to tail) and left him pretty much alone until the other day so he could adjust. He didnt eat for a bit but now eats and goes to the bathroom regularly. When I started picking him up he runs around but pretty much calmed down once I picked him up and held him for a while. I started giving him a bath every other day and he swims around and seems to enjoy it, I stay with him and once he calms down in the water I pet his head and he resists at first but then quickly gives in and stays still while resuming a comfortably paced breathing pace.
NOW.... today as usual I have a hard time getting him out of the cage, he calmed down after 3 or 4 minutes and then I get him in the tub. I left him for a little bit to go clean out the cage and then came back and started petting him. As usual he flips out then calms down. After the bath was done and the water drained it almost looked as if he was in the submission pose pictured in Melissa Kaplan's book and he didnt fuss at all when I picked him up.
I get him out of the bath and for an hour or so start petting him while holding him. I start with his head and then slowly begin to touch his front arms and move towards his rear legs and back to see how much he will let me get away with. He was fine, let me pretty much do what I want. He had his eye towards me closed and the other open (which I read in the Dummies book is a good sign) all while his breathing seemed calm and he seemed relaxed.
I put him back in his cage and pet his head and he FLIPS, tail whipping, dewlap fully out, mouth fully open and NOT running around the cage or away from me, kind of like standing his ground. As I read, I am not to give in because he will know its the way to get me away so I venture forward and.... he snaps snaps and bites (first time he has even shown me an open mouth let alone bite). I continue to struggle with him and eventually pick him up, hold him high, he calms and I pet him again and hes calm. Put him down and its the same story, flips out whipping and biting. He gives in quickly when I get him but getting him picked up and putting him back is a nightmare.
If he continues to freak out when I put him down do I give in? Am I doing the right thing by picking him up again or am I stressing him out by keeping him aggravated? I want to do the right thing and tame him correctly. If he always flips out when I put him down how do I ever get him back in his cage?
Also, how old exactly is a 20" ig? He had his mouth wide and I looked close but couldnt see any teeth (I know I know, they are there.. I just wanted to see them) how bad is getting bit by a 20" ig with no gloves on (I put them on when he started opening his yapper at me)
Thanks in advance 



