1. what do babies eat in the wild? could i give her roaches or crickets or super worms to tide her over?
Your animal is no longer in the wild. There for you should give it the best care possible. DO NOT GIVE YOUR OR ANY PYTHON INSECTS!!
2. other than tongs does anyone have any advice on how to get her to eat?
There are hundreds of ways to get a stubborn snake to eat. Contact the person you got the animal from.
3. what is the best way to move her toward frozen mice?
Your chondro should already be on F/T rodents, again contact the person you got the animal from.
I HIGHLY suggest you read any general python care book. The questions you asked are very general and should be second nature to any snake owner. There is a gold mind of information regarding this species. For future refrence, please do not get an animal if you do not know how to properly care for it. This is a delicate species their care should be properly understood long before the animal lands in your care.
Here are some good resources for you.
www.chondroweb.com
www.finegtps.com
www.allchondros.com
www.moreliaviridisforum.com
good luck!