Sorry to hear you're still having trouble with the poly/stain combo. As I've written many times before there are some characteristics of those products that can make them offgas for months and months. Many a talented woodworker has had to completely strip a project due to application problems with oil-based polyurethane.
Varathane makes both water and oil based products. The waterborne products are their Diamond line, the oil-based are the Premium line.
I think the Varathane Diamond polyurethanes are probably the best of the readily available waterborne products. They make three WB products. For a bit of background, you want to use the hardest urethane that your situation can handle. But hardness comes at the cost of brittleness and the hardest poly does no good if it cracks and allows water through.
The Diamond Polyurethane is their hardest and most water resistant WB poly. However, that hardness comes at the expense of brittleness so it does not always work on cage panels that will flex or expand/contract with the seasons.
The Diamond Spar Urethane is their most flexible and least water resistant WB poly. It is best in situations where the wood will expand and contract a lot or be exposed to sunlight.
The Diamond Floor Finish is inbetween the above two. It does not have any UV inhibitors that weaken the finish and is somewhat flexible to deal with small amounts of expansion and contraction.
I suspect that the Diamond Polyurethane is best for most reptile enclosures. However, if there is a lot of solid wood and/or thin panels of plywood then it might not be flexible enough.
The Diamond Floor finish is probably the safe choice. Water resistance is pretty good and it offers some flexibility.
The Diamond Spar is probably only warranted in situation where a soft wood is used. The back of Bighurt's face frames being a good example. But even then the frames are probably well anchored by the melamine carcass of his cages and the Diamond Floor finish would probably work. But I can understand why he chose the Spar.
Something that is waterbased but requires acetone to remove caught my attention.
This is a catalyzed, two-part WB urethane. In this regard it's just like epoxy - it must be mixed correctly in order to work. But the durability and water resistance surpasses any other urethane product you can buy. Even oil-based.
What are your opionions about "offgas" time and toxicity for say Retics, Burms, Boas, and Balls?
I would never put an animal in an enclosure that was still offgassing, although I'm sure that some offgassing is worse than others and some species are better equipped to deal with it than others.
More importantly, I'd say that the species concerns have more to do with the water resistance needed. Retics and Burms have some pretty nasty urates and I would not expect many sealants to hold up over time. And, like Boas, they do require humidity.
Ball Pythons are a bit more forgiving, from what I understand. Provide them with a slightly humid hide and the entire enclosure does not need to be humid.