Hi Tosh,
This will be my last attempt at explaining my post
. I really hate using the quote, response format but it seems appropriate here since we are having a miscommunication.
Tosha: "But the hundreds of people (myself aside) who have, for decades, (long before the morphs arrived) dedicated themselves to the average hobbyist and the boids they keep, those that have selflessly made great sacrifices to the community - with no big name or million dollar paycheck at the end - done simply for the betterment of the hobby - those people don't deserve appreciation?"
My original post said "big boys" and "old timers." Of course they deserve respect. Most of them were pioneers in some way or another. Of course they deserve appreciation - my whole post revolves around exactly this point! We could end it right here and be in total agreement, so what’s the problem?
Tosha: "Am I understanding you correctly that unless you've personally made a unique contribution to the boid community then you are not allowed to have a voice in the community?"
You are misunderstanding me. You have a voice, so do I. Maybe we should use it to thank those who have been the pioneers, at least from time to time.
Tosha: "Critiscism is a fact of life if you can't take it get out."
I think you mean "Criticism."
Glad we both agree it's fine to be critiqued.
Tosha: "For a "big guy" to "spend thousands of hours a year helping hundreds of folks struggle through "my ball won't eat" - folks that will probably never purchase an animal from you?" its commendable and you should show your appreciation - but if anyone else does it - its regurgitation? Apparently only the "big breeders" have any knowledge of how to feed and care for ball pythons?"
The question is not whether we (you and I) have the knowledge, it's whether we actually CREATED the knowledge. If we did not develop that technique, info, etc., ourselves, we are indeed regurgitating tips that someone else somewhere pioneered. And yes, I believe that each and every one of the major players on the BP scene today actually DEVELOPED innovative procedures, or pioneered new knowledge.
This does not take away from your tireless work on the forums. I think you do a great job there, and I do appreciate YOU for that. If you have developed some independent innovations of your own of which I am not aware, then I hope you will post a list of them on the BP forum so we can all benefit. But, every bit of information I pass on was received from others so I have nothing new or innovative that I can consider "my own." I regurge. Maybe someday I’ll make a post about how newbies should be thankful to people like you who answer their questions – but that’s not what this thread is about.
Tosha: Acknowledging accomplishments is great - but remember there is a whole very large community of people out there aside from the breeders and there are alot of people that give as much or more to the general community than "the big breeders" and maybe they deserve a little appreciation too instead of dismissing them because they aren't "big breeders"
I feel you are trying to twist my words to something I neither said nor implied. My post was about a specific topic - whether people have really thought through how these folks have contributed, and how I feel that is appropriate to consider this as we write our posts about them. For the record, I appreciate anyone who tries to help someone else with anything in our outside the herp community - including you, Tosha. Again, this just was not the subject of my post.
Tosha: "Besides you - asked I told - if you want to call that self promoting - then so be it - but again - you asked the questions."
True enough, although when you posted your original thread, my second response was already up. The title of that thread indicated the questions were meant to be rhetorical. I also think "soul searching" is something that goes on within a person, not in public. Everyone promotes, I just thought you chose a strange venue to do it. No harm, no foul.
Tosha: “If you can't act in a respectful manner (especially in business or to those that afford you your opportunities) then you don't deserve to whine about it when people loose respect for you. I would think that is fairly obvious - I could be wrong.”
I think it’s interesting you bring this up considering the last post you made to this thread was pulled because you crossed the line of respect. Nevertheless, you are absolutely right – and if I have disrespected you in some way I apologize. Likewise, if anyone reading this feels I have done so to them, please let me know so we can work it out.
Tosha: “And if you've been given a leg up from a big guy then more power to you. I'm sure you'll make your first million long before I do.”
I highly doubt that since I have no goals to make a million – or a killing on balls. A little side money and a fun hobby is all I want. I have other priorities.
Tosha: This post is not meant to be confrontational or to bad mouth anyone - just pointing out some very points that were obviously missed.
I think what was missed was the purpose of my original post, and I’m still trying to figure out why. Nasty (who posted above) understood exactly what I was saying. He didn’t agree (fine), but he got my point. I have been as clear here as I know how to be – it’s fine if you don’t agree. Now, let’s get over to the main forum and tell someone how to get their import to feed!
Christy