>>Is there anything she might like better than crickets or waxworms?

You can try flying insects, though the male will probably get it first. The fluttering or buzzing can be irresistible to them. Small moths or houseflies work great. Obviously no bees, fireflies, or hard shelled beetles.
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Torey
Eugene, Oregon, USA
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