>>Hate to say this but I can't tell from that photo! Can you turn 'it' upside down and photograph from underneath?
>>Or, from the side with you pulling the tail down?
>>It looks a bit too large to be a female's from that shot but then way smaller than a typical male.

OHHHH NOOOOOOO!!
LOL you just don't know how hard it was to even get that!

Ok I will keep trying though, it's not a problem to try I am in love with my new camera so using it isn't a big burden on me.
I've tried to get a tail shot with Scooter out of water but that was a complete failure. Maybe if I try while Scooter is outside which makes him/her distracted I could get a good one.
If I do, you'll see it here.
Thanks for trying!
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PHRatz