I wouldn't worry too much about the nose rub. It should heal with time. As for the attitude alot of the albinos that I have worked with has this same problem. So I just let them wear them selfs out. When she starts acting up just let her go on the floor. As she starts to try and get away just bring her back with the hook. After a while she with start to calm down. Just try to make slow smooth motions around her. Also yes the more you handle them the better they should (but not always) ride on the hook. I hope this helps you.

Good luck!