Here are a few photos of cornutum and one Goodei that should help to show the difference between male and female.

The photo below shows the hemipene bulges and the post anal scales. Those enlarged scales will be absent on females. These are species dependent and not all species will show them. As you can see above, the male cornutum does not have enlarged scales. Solare do show them.


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