Is your she in fact a he? Can you post a pic? Does 'it' have waxy secretions coming out of the femoral pores on the hind legs?

My young male is just starting to eat again after his first little breeding season foray. I've heard others say the same, so it should be ending for you as well. I've only had my guy for about a year, so I'm just an ig newbie. I'm sure others can help out more than I can.