my female hasnt eaten in 3 weeks, no more then mayby a few silk worms. its normal because they are stressed and naturaly shy, i am about to make a new thread about my frill, though i doubt i will get responce well enough to help. i've been doing everything from leaving her alone to force feeding her yesterday flukers emergency care supliment as she lost 15 grams.(she was overweight at 130 grams)