HappyHillbilly thanks for the info yeah she has been like this since i got her at the expo the breeder said some of the same things that yo just said. im thinking its because shes still a little smaller and that i just need to give it time im more of a monitor person but i love ablino granite burms. Also her cage is maybe a tiny bit war so ill check that out and as soon as she is out of her cage she calms down tremendously, might hiss a bit but i can deal. So i guess i need to try different tactics and give it some more time thanks for your info=)