I wouldn't give up that easily! If everyone did there wouldn't be very many captive bred Uros now would there?? Set up a new enclosure, procure a female & begin the process of introduction. Sometimes it's almost silly easy. Somtimes it takes some diligence. But, if you're in any way serious about Uros, why give up w/o trying? The very worse that could happen is you'd have 2 Uros in seperate enclosures. BooHoo!!