This is my nile monitor. It is pretty calm I got it when it was only 13 inches and it has grown a lot measured it yesterday at 27.25 inches. It is not aggressive towards me I handle it all the time, it doesn't mind me petting it and it seems to even get excited when I walk in the room probably hoping for food. I have been feeding a varied diet of crickets, roaches,ground turkey, chicken, and the occasional rodent. I was curious to see if anyone on here could determine the sex from looking at the picture I posted of it, it would be very much appreciated.