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Worst Nightmare Week...

brewstersmom Sep 02, 2011 10:05 AM

Hi All,

Sorry it has been a while since I've posted much.

I had a terrible week and wanted to share with some people that might understand. For those of you that have not met Brewster in person he is a total love bug with people. He doesn't care much for other dogs, but he lives to meet new people and kids. He is awesome with them, even big crowds (we have taken him to festivals, the kids' sporting events, etc.). He used to do therapy work before I had my second human child I would take him to a nursing home the town over to visit all the old folks. We have lots of kids in our fam and we did lots of praise-based training when he was young and he has always loved kids even if they did something not nice to him he never reacted.

So, this is why this story is so troubling. On the first day of school we brought Brewster to the bus stop (we do quite often and he loves it and so do the neighborhood kids). A few kids were petting him and one said matter-of-factly "he just bit me." I said "He did?" I was in shock. He has never bit!!! I apologized and then looked at Brewster--he was still sitting there calm and happy, panting and doing a shiba smile waiting for more pets. I didn't see it happen but the kid said it didn't hurt. I don't know if the kid went to pet him and he turned his head or what, but there was no mark on his hand. There was sort of a pink spot but it was gone by the time he got on the bus. Well, his mom sort of freaked out and went on about how another child of hers was visciously attacked by a big dog when he was small. He needed surgery and everything. I sympathized with her and told her I was so sorry that must have been so scary, etc. Well, she then went on to say to keep Brewster away from her little 3-year old, etc. He wasn't even at the bus stop, Greg was standing back a ways and he was sitting, on leash, on our joint (condo) property when the kids approached without asking. We would have said yes to petting because he is so friendly. But still, if she is so afraid of dogs you would think her kids would be trained to either not go near them or to ask first. In any case, I thought everything was fine. It was a bit embarrassing for the boy. He said he was fine, there was no mark on him by the time he went on the bus it wasn't even pink any more.

I *thought* everything was fine. The next day we went to the bus stop (without Brewster) and she came over with paper and wanted our information. I happily gave her our address, name, phone, name of our vet, etc. I told her he was UTD on shots. After giving all that I inquired about her son's hand and said "there wasn't a mark, right? He didn't break the skin or anything?" and she hesitated and then said "Well, there was a puncture." I asked "a puncture? He didn't break the skin did he" and then she didn't answer me but started to go on about how we might say he has never bitten but she needs to report it to the police to make sure it doesn't happen again after what happened to her other child, etc. She said we would be hearing from her or something like that.

So I went home and then burst out crying thinking they were going to put Brewster down over what wasn't even a bit, honestly. He doesn't even mouth you when playing, I think it might have been bad timing or something (e.g., he turned his head while the boy reached to pet or something weird).

I called the police myself to report it and they had me call the dog officer. I explained to the dog officer that my dog is a small dog and very nice with people. He is well-trained and was sitting on leash when the boy and other children were petting him. We have other witnesses who were there but nobody except the boy saw Brewster bite him. My kids were confused because they were also petting Brew and they didn't see him bite, etc. The dog officer said not to worry, she hadn't reported it, and if she did we had done all we could.

Two hours later the dog officer showed up at my house. She reported a "dog attack" to the police. I was a bit in shock but I invited the guy in. He was SO nice and loved Brewster. Brewster was in his lap and licking his face almost the whole visit. He said they couldn't remember which hand and there was no mark on the boy, but he is required to document it since she reported it. He said the dog was probably playing and got carried away. I explained he wasn't even playing at the time, he was sitting there all happy. That's why I think it was a mistake, etc.

Anyway, Brewster is under quarantine for 10-days. Luckily I did have his rabies shot done even though he gets bad reactions and seizures from it. Had he not had the shot they would have taken him. I'm not sure if they would have destroyed him or held him for 10-days or what. At the end of 10 days we have to pay for a vet visit and certif of good health, and some fines to the town.

We live in a small town and I'm hoping it doesn't say dog attack in the paper. Nobody will want their kids coming over to play if that happens. Also, I'm afraid these people might want to sue us or something. I can empathize with being a protective mom and how people are more important than animals, etc. I cannot, at the same time, justify what she is calling a bite or an attack as such. There wasn't even a bite mark and she called it a "puncture." Uggh. I want to cry.

Please keep good thoughts for Brewster that this all just fizzles away. I know a lot of Shibas do not like strangers or get overwhelmed or nervous with lots of petting. Brew is not like that. He LOVES it. The kids put him in a wagon and pull him around (he jumps right in). They dress him in doll clothes. He gets excited to play with them all. When they were 1 or 2 they'd sit on him to watch tv. Lots of kids come over to play and everyone always says how wonderful he is with children. This one weird fluke of an incident is going to label him vicious.

We've had Brew since he was barely 7-weeks old. He will be 9 on Sept 14.


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Amanda's Pack: Greg the Husband, Kate the daughter, Liam the son, Brewster the Shiba Inu, Cassie the Torbie & Fenway the Leopard Gecko!

Replies (9)

Shboom Sep 02, 2011 10:58 PM

Hi Amanda! Well is seems you have had quite a day doesn't it? I can see where the boys mother may be over reacting to this incident if she had another child attacked by a dog. Thing is we have watched Brewster grow up on this board and in all of that time there has never been an incident such as this one. I am thinking you are right and Brewster turned his head to the motion of the kids hand and he may have been panting or whatever and it startled the kid when his mouth touched his hand. I think the quarantine is just a process because of the report made and it shouldn't be anything to worry about. Without any witness and documented by several people that there wasn't a puncture the burden of proof for the mother to take any legal action would be negligable. Even the kid himself said he was okay. Sounds to me like it was a bad day for someone and they need to make someone else's day miserable as well.
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If there are no dogs in Heaven, then when I die I want to go where they went.

KDiamondDavis Sep 03, 2011 07:42 AM

Maybe I'm being extreme here, but I don't think so. It sounds like mental illness in that mom. Also, the other child in the family getting bitten may have given this kid the idea of saying he was bitten.

Thank God your dog was vaccinated up to date. This is one time when it is critical. A dog who did NOTHING can be put to sleep over a false accusation if that dog doesn't have an up-to-date rabies vaccination.

We desperately need rabies testing that does not require examining a dead dog's brain. That's what we're up against, because rabies is virtually always fatal to a person who gets it.

So, thank God you had a current vaccination. Do watch your dog carefully, as at his age there can be changes in behavior due to arthritis or other physical problems. Never leave any dog alone with any child under school age. That is just not safe.
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Kathy Diamond Davis, author, "Therapy Dogs: Training Your Dog to Reach Others," 2nd edition, and the free Canine Behavior Series articles at http://www.veterinarypartner.com/Content.plx?P=SRC&S=1&SourceID=47

Kiricki Sep 03, 2011 10:42 AM

Oh Amanda! I'm so sorry you have had to go through such a terrible experience. I agree with Bob, that this total over-reaction, on the mom's part, is probably rooted in what happened with her other child. However, with nothing more than a quickly fading pink spot, and so many witnesses to that, I can't imagine how it can go any further than it has already.....which is, of course, much too far!

It does serve as a warning to the rest of us, though.........be SURE all vaccinations are up to date, and that you can find the papers to prove the fact!

You didn't say if you were previously acquainted with this woman, but I think not. If you knew more about her, you might find out there have been other situations that she over-reacted to!

Sending caring thoughts your way!

Mom, I bet Brew was only kissin that little boy!
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Anne, Bill, and Murphy

touvellep Sep 03, 2011 11:20 AM

That mom does sounds like she is way overly protective- I feel sorry for her kids and hope they don't grow up with her same fears. Hang in there.....I hope this nightmare is soon over. Our positive thoughts are being sent to you as I write.

Patty,Beni, and Kari

kona63 Sep 03, 2011 06:05 PM

Knowing Brewster and being around him as he grew up, I find it very hard to believe that he would bite anyone. I have never in all the times I have been around him seen him act the least bit aggresive. Part of the mothers story that bothers me is she couldn't tell the dog office what hand Brewster allegidly bit. I know if that was me, I would know the exact location of the bite. It sounds like the mother is being way over reactive about the situation.
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David owned by Kona, Kiko & Kaia

touvellep Sep 09, 2011 07:31 PM

Hi! We are hoping that this week was a lot better!!! Let us know how things are going with you and Brewster.

Patty, Beni, and Kari

Kiricki Sep 09, 2011 10:16 AM

Hi Amanda--

First, I should have commented on the beautiful, and wonderful, pictures you sent with your post. They really are so very special and show so clearly what a wonderful boy your Brewster is!

Has the dust settled, with no more problems from the over-protective mom? I do hope all is calm and peaceful now and you can relax and enjoy the fall season.

Your post did serve as a good reminder, though. I had not sent for Murphy's new license....he was vaccinated on schedule, but I'd just not applied for his license. I promptly sent in the paperwork and it should arrive in the next few days!

Mom! Does I get some new joolry on my collar?
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Anne, Bill, and Murphy

ma Sep 11, 2011 09:29 AM

Oh, Amanda,

What a nightmare. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. When I got Artemis, her breeder warned me that dogs need to be protected from people--that if anything happens (or even if it doesn't happen but someone claims it does) the dog is always blamed. We'll all be character references for Brewster!

Chelle Mar 22, 2012 01:29 PM

Amanda- I have not read the other responses and if you have had any updates to this, but I am so sorry you have had to go through this. I do not think Brewster did anything. I doubt he even really "bit" that kid at all. The kid might have gotten his hand near the mouth and he felt teeth, but if a dog really wanted to bite, there would be a mark and you would know it happened. Sounds like the kid wanted some drama in his life and decided to create it. It is too bad it is at the expense of you and your dog.
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Chelle and the rest of the crew including, but not limited to Kita and Taiko (the shiba inu wrestle maniacs), Adi (reserved and dignified tabby cat), and all 28 reptiles www.freewebs.com/performanceshibas

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