I'm not sure which I would do, but I wish you luck. I know that in specied where the female is dominant, you should move her to the males cage. When the male is dominant, you should move him to the female's cage. I'm not sure which is dominant in the species you have, but if you can find out, you'll have your answer!
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~Sara~
5.5 ball pythons
1.0 Black-lined plated lizard (Lizzy Butt)
0.1 Burmese Python (Pixil)
2.1 Pet Rats
1.1 Dogs (Ozzie and Mandy)
0.1 Cat (Isis)
0.0.1 Synodontis Catfish (Big Spotty Fish)
0.2 Convict Cichlids