Whats sad about this. People who have been doing something for a long time, have a view. Whether its right or wrong, or whatever. As time goes on, things change. They always change.

Folks want to hear what those folks have to say, but only if it agrees with what they are thinking. It can never agree with what they are thinking.

Heres where it goes south. Folks make it about right or wrong, or a nice person or not. Personality, etc. When in fact, none of that matters. So you ask, WHAT MATTERS.

What matters is, did Bluerosy or I for that matter, report our experiences accurately. If we do or did, that's about all you can ask for.
Forums such as these, always have a range of people with a range of abilities and a range of reasons why they post. Some offer help, some need help. Which is the base of this forum. Once it leaves that area and enters other reasons, social, psychological or other. Here any one can say anything, or challenge anything without support, backup, knowledge, experience. There are those that attack anyone whom they feel they can bring down, which falsely makes them feel good. It brings them up. With all that in mind. Yes, folks like Bluerosy and I often feel attacked and if you look at it, we are.

The simple point, no matter what we say, all have to right to use it, or not, believe it or not. There are no rules that indicate anyone should believe anything. So I ask, why do folks attack those attempting to help? This is an important question. This is what you need to look at first. If folks are not interested, all they have to do is say thank you and move on.
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