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Sasheena
at Mon Jun 9 23:37:50 2003 [ Email Message ] [ Show All Posts by Sasheena ]
Darn, and here I thought I was going to get a nice female kingsnake. Ah well, perhaps we can still do a trade when our respective clutches hatch.
There ARE those who respond negatively on this forum. We've ALL seen them. I don't think those who've responded to this thread are among those, but I DO know that it gets you sometimes defensive... you think Am I going to be slammed for asking this question? Will I be answered? Will one of the people who are the worst at flaming other people without cause attack me?.
Sometimes if you're not on a level surface (ie you have various and sundry factors effecting your mood) it's easy to get over sensitive and see that people are attacking you when they aren't.
Perhaps there should be an "I want to flame you" message board... and people can send a nice cordial invite to someone privately, "I saw you proposed keeping snakes on PINE. I'm gonna flame you in the "flame forum" so I invite you to come over and tell me your sorry side of the story" Be nice to keep the flames where they belong.
I am very grateful for the GOOD people on this forum who always help. Some don't help don't hinder, I'm glad of their stories and difficulties to read up on so perhaps I can avoid a bad mistake by learning of theirs. And finally I try my best to ignore, or even laugh at, the ridiculous people who post on here who have no social skills and no abilities to share dubious "knowledge" about snakes.
Just live and learn and be yourself the best example, and sad of those who lack the skills you yourself mostly possess. (that's what I tell myself) ----- ~Sasheena
Ground Snakes
Kit, Kaboodle, Tantilla, Tantillas, Lightning, Kinkee, Maple
JCP
Dreamer
Rosy
Castle
Kings
Licorice, Bishop, Queenie, Jester, Tigris, Euphrates
Pandora, Phantom
Lady
Corns
Aphrodite, Athena, Hermes
Tiger
Amulet
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