A few things to get caught up:

Yes, I am sure the breeder sent me an ill turtle. He never did eat and I spent over $200 at the vet trying to keep him alive. I remain very bummed out.

How do I get ahold of the guy with the male turtles?

Finally, my female is likely to lay eggs shortly [per the same breeder who sold me the male...]and I need to understand how to incubate the eggs. What incubator do you recommend? Do you put the eggs in immediately? What other secrets can you share with me...or can you steer me to a good website that explains all of this?

Thanks again!