Thanks Jobi

I have a major problem, it's kind of a "cycle" that I don't know how to break:

Neither are eating now. as such, I have no choice but to handle them, gently get their mouths open, and pop some food in. This stresses them out and makes them less likely to eat....and so on!

I will try keeping them out of each other's sight, maybe that will help.

Any other suggestions? How can I stop this cycle?