ohh well, there are allways pictures on the internet of a proper male crest. also, you'd be better off asking this at reptizone.com, their forum for waterdragons seems active whereas this one is allmost dead. good luck on the femoral pores i honestly have no idea. i just seen your post go unanswered for over a week and figured i'd contribute what i could.

i've added a link and a pic.

the male and female in this pic are the same age.

Good luck

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