FR can dish out quite a tongue lashing but at the same time he's dropping gold in the form of knowledge. When you study fight or flight in humans FR is a clear cut case of fight. He's hard on issues and as a side he's hard on people.

It took alot to admit your mistake in husbandry and in my experience I try to learn something new every day but I learn in leaps and bounds from mistakes that I make. I'm sorry for your loss...

Chris