*Update*

After talking to the former owner I have found out the following:

1) The monitor was bought at a reptile show as a male, they just think it is a female.

2) They fed it canned dog food that was 95% turkey.

Right now I am pretty pissed off. It was my mistake for buying from someone that didn't directly breed them. But now I am stuck with an animal that is probably not that healthy and won't eat. I have tried insects, f/t rodents, and even ground turkey. I will try a live hopper and see what happens. Other than that I don't know what to do. I am trying to remain optimistic and happy about my new lizard, but I am getting frustrated quickly!